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    Remembering Timmy originally posted in Dec. "07

    Friday, March 14, 2008, 01:05 PM EST [General]



    IN MEMORIAM Timothy Stephen Sellers February 25, 1982 - October 20, 2007

        Our son and beloved brother passed away on October 20, 2007. He was our biggest hero.This is his eulogy:

    The name Timothy means "Gift from God" and Timmy was exactly that! We were blessed to have him as a son, brother, uncle and grandson even though it was for only 25 years. We were all inspired by Tim's bravery during his long battle with his medical conditions which included severe cerebral palsy and mental retardation. Teachers, doctors, nurses, therapists and friends all commented on Tim's sweet, loving and happy nature. He was especially known for his beautiful smile. People said his smile would "light up a room" - many times they remarked that all handicapped children are special, but Tim had a shining, angelic spirit that drew you to him.

    Timmy, you taught us to value every day and appreciate the simple things in life. How could anyone have a bad day when we watched you enjoy a Frosty from Wendy's, laugh when you were given a mouthful of "pop rocks" candy, cracking up when your dad drove you over a cattle guard/bumpy road, or just enjoy a hug and big kiss?

    Tim may have been the size of a boy physically, but there is no doubt that our Tim was a wonderful, strong and brave man! You fought, struggled, cried and kept on battling, Tim! Your courage/determination and happy nature are what helped you to stay with us for 25 years, when the doctors said you would not make it to your 16th birthday!

    To quote a poem by Joy Lundberg: "within your child's restricted frame, lies a great and noble spirit". That poem also says: "Learn from him, nurture him with all your heart and soul. And one bright day, beyond this time, he'll rise up well and whole". That day has come, Tim. As Proverbs says: "now there is new life in your soul and grace in your neck. You shall walk in your way safely, and your feet will not stumble". When you lie down, Timmy, you won't be afraid: yes, you will lie down and your sleep will be painless and sweet! You have earned it - we are so very proud of you! Now God has lifted up your hands and feeble knees and made straight paths for your feet, your illness and hurt are turned out and you are healed sweet son! We are grieving because we miss you, but are joyous because we know you are healed and walking into God's arms plus the loving arms of your grandma and Aunt Judy who proceeded you. We love you and are so grateful that you are at peace....

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