In the heart of many parents in China, there have been such a wish: when our children can establish such a concept ---- rely on themselves to earn money? Because they know that the only way their children can compete in the future become strong, and if it continues to maintain focus under such a state, then the child may never .
To see the United States, Japan, Switzerland, the German approach, we can get a lot of inspiration. To make their children a good life, their cattle, as desperately like a dry, which in the eyes of foreign countries is inconceivable that our parents have become accustomed.
Reported each year in college freshmen everywhere, you will find a lot of the older parents before Ben ran after the luggage for children, admission procedures, and the prime of "party" is sitting in the shade listening to music, reading . In some primary schools and many of the parents often do the children go to school to back on duty, engage in health.
Some of the more than 1,500 high school students in Tianjin conducted a survey found that 52% of the students daily life by parents and school supplies on behalf of order, 74% of children leave the parents do nothing, only 13% of people occasionally do some simple chores .
Not only have many child in our country, the world's families, fewer children are in, but the attitude towards children, the difference is great.
While a 13-year-old children, some parents talk about it, said: "He was 13 years old, can not do anything."
Some parents said: "He has 13 years of age, will be cooking their own living entirely."
Many parents always think the more they pay, the more well-being of children. In the end, parents put their children to do things bigger and more, the children would do less, nothing to do until the last drop, what kind will not do.
Some parents say that the Chinese children deprived of opportunities for self-reliance is not excessive.
In developed countries, families, parents generally are young children's attention to self-care ability and self-reliance.
U.S. high school students saying the slogan: "To spend money, they earn!"
American youth from small time to start, regardless of their home and more wealthy, the boys after the age of 12 will depend to a neighbor or their home lawn, delivering newspapers to earn some pocket money.
Girls in a small nanny to make money. Every Saturday there is a girl to go to restaurant workers, mother told her, you can work at home to help his mother, still can receive a salary. But the girl feel at home earn money is not his mother's ability, she must go out to make money that they have the ability to self-reliance.
Japanese education children have a saying: In addition to sun and air are the blessings of nature, everything else must be obtained through labor.
Many Japanese students after school hours, would go outside to participate in work to earn money, work-study students in the very common, even the children of a wealthy family is no exception.
They leaned Hotel Duan Panzi, washing dishes, and then store sales, care for the elderly in nursing homes, home teachers do to earn their own tuition. In Japan, children are very young, the parents gave them instill an idea: "Do not trouble to others."
Family travel, no matter how small children, without exception, have a small back pack. To ask why? Parents said: "They own things, should themselves back."
In Canada, parents train their children in order to survive in the future society of skills, from very early independent living skills training for children.
A correspondent in Canada home, two elementary school children every morning to go to each household delivering newspapers.
Watching the children happily distribute the newspaper, a reporter who's father is proud. : Points so many newspapers is not easy to get up very early, regardless of wind and rain have to send, you can delay children have never been.
Admittedly, a person's sense of social responsibility is so trained. This is what we need to carefully study and many Chinese parents place.